Are traditional weddings sexist?

Efren Clankscales: well since im not attracted to women in the slightest, i daresay id have to go with playing some final fantasy

Manie Labat: Depends who it is

Felipa Nosis: for one that could help, but won't?Are you tired of being the "breakdown of the nuclear family"?, when most women fight hard to have help, while they're doing both provide and be the caregivers?

Carlton Lastrapes: There are really only 3 rules for a successful marriage:1) Date for 12-18 months before proposing.2) Don't stop dating once you get married.3) Don't complain about problems.I believe that will make a 90% success rate.Just stop any old "Grandma & Grandpa" couple on the street and ask them their 3 rules for a long lasting marriage.

Keven Woodington: They are accusing specifically the feminists for "breakdown of the nuclear family" and since you are not one (you claimed on several occasions that you are not feminist) I do not understand why do you feel accused.

Fr! ancis Stickle: Why? What's so sexist about traditional weddings? It's not as if the groom tells the bride "You can't vote" or something.

Joel Feagler: You ask a question. Tell us you think you know the answer and then want us to explain to you, what you think you already know. If you think weddings are sexist than to you weddings are sexist. H*ll they kicked Jesus out of school. Saying the pledge of allegiance is offensive , so sure weddings might as well be sexist.Its actually the fanatical politically correct nutcases that have to trample everyone elses freedoms to insure there own self-importance, without regard for the mess & destruction they create.***************** Blue Berryhead ********Only a fanatic would think in terms of giving your daughter away like she's a piece of property. I suspect it would seem like that to you, since you likely have never known the love of a father, muchless who's your daddy.I'd explain it to you, but you wouldn't understand.You can! take deep comfort in the fact that feminist have worked very ! hard to drive men from their children's lives and their home....Show more

Raven Purl: Traditional weddings are indeed sexist. The ceremony presents the bride as property to be transferred from father to husband. Traditional weddings are largely based on biblical scripture, the most sexist book there ever was.EDIT: To anyone who saw this question as a chance to jump on feminism: "Be careful, your personal issues are showing."...Show more

Torrie Weissenbach: basically approximately continually intercourse, except she's a finished b*tch, and she or he's in warmth, then i can leave my sexcontinual for videogames, no longer even for videogames, purely for her expression while she gets denied, that **** is invaluable.

Norine Lomonte: Weddings: sexist towards women.Divorce court: sexist towards men.There, we're even. :)

Gaylord Barragan: @Neo, your answer is priceless!Our children truly need us, and I'd rather rid myself of someone not helping, than rid ! myself of the one totally dependent on me!

Ollie Hamiel: Hi Dear, It is up to you..... For me, I go for the feeling.Once I felt pity to a girl and gave her a chance to be part of me. Suddenly I found my self wrong right after I gave her the chance. I could not treasure her. I really pitied on her. Finally I told her that I couldn't be her boyfriend. I didn't do anything to her. I just told her straight.Now I am so determined, if someone cannot shake my heart cannot be my gf whether she needs me or not. It is just a boy point of view....Show more

Robin Marchione: Not very many. And just think, eventually gay people will be joining the ranks of the divorced alongside straight people.Yes, legalized gay marriage is inevitable. And so are the divorces. Cheers!@BEH: See, now I'm confused. I just said legalized gay marriage is inevitable. I didn't say marriage is between a man and a woman. But, somehow you still think I'm a homophobe. Why? Because I didn't say! that gay marriages will be happier and better than straight marriages?! Well, I'm not going to say that and it doesn't make me a anti-gay.

Russell Mckinzie: Both straight men and women can answer since they're both attracted by the female body.Thanks.

Jonie Lauria: Yes.I don't think a man needs a woman to be happy in his life.The Gynocentric media will try to promote it as much as possible : showing men to be unhappy, lonely...before he meets the love of his life, and suddenly his life is all peaches after he meets the woman of his dreams...thats how its portrayed.That is not the reality - as much as society would like to brainwash men into thinking that they need women to be happy...its not true, men do NOT need women....Show more

Tobie Oshea: I think traditional weddings are just a waste of money. I think there are better ways to start a union than spending that kind of $. And there is so much pressure and to do. Too much for me. I had a hard time making it to city hall. I put big weddings on the list of traditions th! at include those horrific fairy tales.

Luana Carothers: I imagine that if it hasn't collapsed within 5 years, it's considerably less likely to.Less likely, but not unheard of.So, with that in mind, I'd guess about 1/3 of couples will stay in marriage until death parts them.But it seems to be plummeting with each generation....Show more

Victor Macallister: I think big weddings are a waste of time and money due to the high divorce rate. Who really wants to be stuck with an expensive wedding gown and pictures that likely will never be looked at again?

Sang Hanafin: Yeah! The bride gets a little parade down the isle in a $2,000 white dress like she is the star of the show. While the groom is sneaked in the back door and standing there in rented shoes. Yeah that's sexist!

Merlin Fleischhacker: Yes, the groom has zero say in any of the planning and if he ever voices his opinion it will be viciously shot down by every woman who hears it. Is it really fair t! o devote the first day of a marriage to the wants and desires of the br! ide alone? Why not at least let the man wear something different, every man has worn the exact same suit to get married in.

Armanda Hertel: Yeah, every thing is sexist against women. That is feminist conspiracy theory. Just like the Jews control every thing, as Nazi's and the KKK's Jewish conspiracy theory said so.

Bethanie Menden: No i'm not tired of it because I don't pay any attention to such remarks. It goes in one ear and out the other, same way as "all women have lesbian leaning tendencies" and "you're a feminist man hater!"lol

Oda Mauson: ......hmmmmm hard choice there.. wow thats tough im gonna have to get back to you one that one.edit:ok after long deliberation I will choose attractive women, but gta 4 sure is fun right? Lmao...Show more

Frederick Mccoach: IMO the "giving her away" part is - yay you're not longer the property of your father, you're the property of some other bloke!

Roland Stampley: @ DARK NIGHTI purport that binding ! oneself to another for life is unworkable - but that does not mean that gay people shouldn't be ALLOWED to do whatever straight people can doI personally would not get married but it is balderdash to say gay people should have less rights than straights in that they should be allowed access to marriage just as straights areJust because I am debating the flaws of marriage - this doesn't change the political landscape for ALL gays and straights regarding the issue of gay marriage.It is idiotic to launch the "well now gays can be as miserable as married straights" argument at me - it is irrelevant.You say you are pro-gay and every piece of trash that comes out of your mouth belies that...Show more

Nilda Bafia: Theres a cheat code in GTA where you can have sex with an attractive woman, see they thought of everything!

Lue Podewils: IF OFFEREDI mean, I play GTA IV or Animal Crossing or Madden 2K9, because NO attractive woman has come over to me and said "When are you ! going to penetrate MY end zone? I mean, my defenses have been split and! there is a gap for you to head towards?"All things being equal, I'm still on the losing side of this math problem...Show more

Cliff Jacoby: _til death parts them? (As per the vows)....Show more

Curtis Josef: Since women are not really attracted to male bodies, I dont think i would want to have sex with women ever again: “For heterosexual women, looking at a naked man walking on the beach is about as exciting as looking at landscapes.” Dr. Merideth Chivers.Playing chess DID IT for me recently to get out of sex..........................Playing vid games are also fun: finished COD & Assasins Creed Unfortunately GTA did not do for me, because it reminded me too much about sex........I can barely even stomach watching TV anymore, because im bombarded with a chauvinistic display of women, who are not really visually attracted to male bodies in the same way, which is so one-sided and unfair.Driving, reading, academic pursuits, doing my personal research, playing &! listening to music, playing guitar, is far better & more fullfilling than sex with women because women are not really that attracted to male bodies and hence is sex unfair on heterosexual males....Show more

Jeannetta Gaffigan: you can don a groom's get-up if you like. maybe that will cease making you feel it's sexist.

Maurice Breuning: What do you mean by traditional weddings ? If you do not like marriage do not get married period.

Jonelle Eligio: The needy ones are just too needy. They will eventually drain you emotionally and financially.The ones who won't help with anything...sounds a bit selfish to me. Will take someone's help yet never return in kind. If those are my only two options, I'd rather be alone...Show more

Gene Debell: I suppose i'd take the chick, but I would long for GTA.....

Monroe Rainey: Since I'm a straight woman, I'd take the game. But I'd prefer sex with my husband over the game.

Ardell Luy: 100% of One-nightstand! s and all other types of uncommitted relationship are dead within month! s or weeks.At least in marriage 40% stay for lifetime. Think again ...

Pamela Meno: I'm all for gay rights to marry actually. Such a weird and arbitrary standard to set. But i doubt it would ease the divorce rate over all.

Ha Wolski: @ CASSANOVA II-How can you say that if 60% of marriages are dead at FIVE YEARS that the remainder would therefore last a LIFETIME?Please don't tell me you are doing Statistics at school.FAIL....Show more

Fannie Collingwood: Behavior, conditions, or attitudes that foster stereotypes of social roles based on sex. The bride wears a white dress, the groom wears a black tux and the throwing of the garter (to women). That’s all I can think of for now as I haven’t been to a lot of weddings (4). But, I don’t think the wedding itself that is problematic or horribly sexist. It’s how you treat the marriage afterwards.

Tory Clapper: Um, no? Why would it be?

Marco Stolarz: Anything that separates woman from a man is sex! ist. SO WHAT.Asking a woman out on a date is sexist too. SO WHAT.Treating a girl WELL just because she is a women is sexist too. SO WHAT.Holding a door open for you ungrateful wenches is sexist. SO WHAT.Showing any kind of female adoration or worship is sexist.EVERYTHING IS SEXIST. Guess what ladies. Sexism is not illegal.You got a problem with sexism????? Or are you just not getting laid.And no.... traditional weddings are not sexist.Traditional weddings are --->> STUPID.NO MARRIAGE DOT COM...Show more

Myesha Zerbe: I can multitask :)

Porfirio Gartland: Neither. I am not into video games or women. If I am playing games, there are chains and riding crops involved. ;-)

Carolynn Testani: If you are comparing your baby/small children to your spouse/partner..then yes. Children (babies/toddlers) need to be taken care of, your husband or S/O is another able bodied adult. If they refuse to put in any effort at all, I don't see why not...

Lizzette Wendroth: ! Depends. Our children are our responsibility. We brought them into th! e world, and they're dependent on us. We also generally have such a strong bond with our children, that to leave them behind would be nearly impossible. But if the dependent person is an adult who's made him- or herself totally physically, emotionally and financially dependent on me, then I think I'd be better off with someone who didn't help me (if those are my only two choices)....Show more

Lauri Ohl: I would definitely choose playing a video game over having sex with an attractive woman. :) But my favorite game is Final Fantasy 7. I kinda have the hots for Barrett.